Positive Confrontation
Today at the Daily Deli, an adorable local café nestled into the mountainside, I had by far the most fascinating, inspiring conversation of the last two months. I was working on my fourth Black Sash educational presentation, when a kind-eyed, middle-aged man moseyed across the terrace and took a seat at an adjacent table. Immediately, he introduced himself as Michael Copley, a real Irishman turned South African citizen and connoisseur of global culture. I spoke about five words before Michael identified me as an American and inquired after my specific hometown. When I named the Boston area, he nearly leapt out of his seat with excitement and began to tell me of his Northeastern adventures with various girlfriends in his youth.
However, the conversation quickly grew more serious as he asked me about my impressions of South Africa. We soon agreed that this is a powerful place- epitomized by the majestic Table Mountain, which never fails to impress and to spiritually move. But the real magic of this power, in a uniquely South African sense, is its ability to inspire positive confrontation. Never have I perceived such a palpable effort to reconcile and to come to terms with competing historical perspectives. Here, people generally seem committed to confronting past injustices in order to build a unified nation.
Now it is important to note that my observation of this “commitment” is a relative statement; I am not blind to the obvious, upsetting, and gross inequalities that currently exist in South Africa. But the mere existence of a conscious effort toward reconciliation impresses me. In the U.S., we have never deliberately opened a popular social dialogue of the histories of race and class in our nation. Maybe this is why we so easily gloss over our own issues of poverty and inequality hidden just below the glimmering façade of American promise.
As Michael said, “With the light comes darkness. With newfound consciousness and awareness emerge the shadows.” Perhaps an understanding of these shadows is a signal of increasing empowerment. In reality, confronting society’s very darkest problems is the first step toward recognizing previously marginalized populations and identifying workable solutions.